What to Expect at You Portrait Session.
A lot of people book a session and then spend the next few weeks low-key anxious about it.
What's he going to do? Will I know what to do with my hands? What if the kids don't cooperate? What if I look awkward?
I get it. Having a camera pointed at you feels unnatural at first, and if you've never worked with a photographer before, you're showing up to something you've never done. That's a little nerve-wracking for most people.
So here's exactly what happens, from the moment you reach out to the moment you have your photos — no surprises.
Step 1: We Talk Before Anything Else
After you reach out, we'll connect to make sure we're a good fit and talk through what you're looking for. This is where I find out who's being photographed, what kind of feel you're going for, and whether you have a location in mind or want suggestions.
This conversation matters. The more I know going in, the better I can plan a session that actually fits your family instead of a generic one-size-fits-all approach.
Step 2: Planning Your Outfits and Location
Once we're booked, I'll help you think through both.
For outfits, I have a full guide on my blog about what photographs well and what to avoid — but I'm also happy to look at specific pieces you're considering and give you honest feedback before the session. Just send me a photo. That's what I'm here for.
For location, I'll ask about the vibe you want. Natural and outdoorsy? Urban and polished? Beach? Wooded park? I know Hampton Roads well and I'll match you to a spot that fits. We'll also plan around the light, which means timing the session so you get that warm, flattering golden-hour glow instead of harsh midday sun.
Step 3: The Day of Your Session
Plan to arrive relaxed and a few minutes early. If you have kids, build in some buffer — rushing to a session with kids never ends well.
When we start, I'll ease everyone in gradually. I don't bark directions at people or pose them like mannequins. We'll move through the session naturally, with me guiding posing and positioning without it feeling forced. Most people hit their stride about 15 minutes in once the camera stops feeling like a big deal.
For families: kids being kids is fine. I'm not looking for perfect stillness. I'm looking for real moments — the laugh, the look, the little one running toward you. Those are the photos you'll actually love.
Sessions typically run 60 to 90 minutes depending on the package, and we'll cover several looks and locations within that time.
A Few Things That Help
Show up fed. This sounds small but it isn't. Hungry kids are difficult kids. If your session is in the evening, have a snack in the car on the way.
Don't over-hype it to your kids. When you tell a five-year-old they have to be on their absolute best behavior for photos, you're setting yourself up for a power struggle. Just tell them you're going somewhere fun.
Trust the process. There will be moments during the session where it feels like things aren't going perfectly. Someone's not smiling. Someone's being difficult. That's normal. I've been doing this long enough to know how to work around it, and you might be surprised which frames turn out to be your favorites.
Ready to Book?
If you have questions or you want to talk through what a session would look like for your family, reach out anytime. I'm always happy to answer questions before you commit to anything.
Rob Owens Photography — portrait and maternity photography across Hampton Roads, VA. Starting at $250.